lunar people will be noted for their extremes in behaviour. >> 我不能很肯定是否有 “极端的行为”
Qualities that stem from the mind like imagination, reflection, intuition, doubts and quest for truth will be present in these people. … … It is the imaginary things that will captivate and hold their attention rather than real things. … … Sometimes even violent thoughts will occur while contemplating about the future. >> 以前的我,确实有常陷在自己的想象中。我也很喜欢 幻想、发白日梦。也有去幻想一下未来的自己。比如,未来的自己是很有钱,不必工作,可以到处去旅行。暴力的幻想真的常有。最常有的是,幻想着成为英雄拯救被欺负的人;有时却是幻想自己被欺负,然后比喻无奈的重手还击,插眼、打喉结、踢下体。
when they are associated with spirituality, self-confidence and idealism, they grow stronger inwardly and lead happy lives. Only when they acquire confidence with the help of their intellect and intuition can they achieve miracles in any field they are involved in. … … The moon does not produce its own light but only reflects the light of the sun. Similarly, the people of this number depend on someone or something which boosts self confidence to help them use their cerebral power and execute their ideas. If not, they fail to face the trials and tribulations of life. >> 额。。。我真的缺少了份自信,也少了份对种种事的信念和主观的看法 (主张)。自小,心里就一直有着 “我似一张白纸来到这地球上。没有残留前世的记忆,也没有对未来的憧憬。我以一张白纸的方式,一点一点在上面画满印记。” 我也发现到我总会和某个团体、某个组织的领头配合的很好。我会依附在他们的理念下操作的很好。我要建立的是自己的主观信念,从而衍生出那一份自信。
They have the compulsive habit of doing everything by themselves and are not practical in their approach. >> 这个。。。。 我在小学就知道了。基本上,我有我处事的节奏 和 思考逻辑,一般上,很难和人配搭的上。要嘛,我独自一人做。要嘛,我就一切依着对方的去执行。现在想清楚,我是不懂得如何与人配合而达到共识。 >> 后半段,我就不认同。我的方法是很靠谱的。
They also tend to worry constantly due to their fantasizing nature and fill their lives with problems of their own making. >> 我的疏忽确实常让我陷入一片混乱。我常出现 “鬼遮眼” 似的过失 (有大有小)。
They are always suspicious by nature. (These are the people who lock their doors and walk a few yards and come back again to check whether the lock has been secured properly or not). They are basically fickle-minded and suffer from periodic emotional throbbings. Due to their mental instability, they make mountains out of molehills. >> 焦虑症的一种现象吧。我已经开始在着手处理这个部分。不知道为什么,内心总是会有很多顾虑、担忧。 >> emo 。。。 我好像真的没有快乐的回忆。纵观这一些日子,我的一生可以用 纳闷、无奈 来做一个结论。
fiercely argumentative type … … can be unsocial … … But when opposed, they become submissive … … can be bullies … … cowards at heart … … replicate the style and habit of their friends and associates to a great extent … … >> 这些形容都很贴切。唯独 bullies。
good counsellors; but when they do something by themselves, they will keep on thinking about it again and again and become confused; They behave very nicely towards those who are not afraid of them; and keep on dominating and bullying those who are timid and submissive. >> 这段,我很难起共鸣。尤其是 bullying 这部分。在和人相处这部分,我会出现两个内在状况,一个是我觉得我能驾驭的,和我驾驭不来的。驾驭,可以是我认为他们会接受和听我的。驾驭不来的,是我认为我没能力说服他们的那一群人。
generally lazy and dislike manual labour, but are mentally alert. They contemplate a lot for long but perform slowly. They will accept and listen to everybody’s advice and yet will not do anything concrete. (“What can I do; whose advice should I follow?” is the question they raise!). They are argumentative people who argue for the sake of argument! >> 惰性,我有。可是,体力劳动是我会喜欢的。我也花很多时间去思考、深思一些事情,行动就欠缺 (尤其是和金钱有关的, 还有但我觉得我的决定还不是最好的时候。)对于可逆、行动性质的事情,我是果断的。但,对于方向、决策、不可逆的事情,我就会出现犹豫不决的特质。 >> 我的好辩是内在的。
The people of this number should set high goals for themselves and cultivate self-confidence, will, determination and mind control and make a conscious effort to quell and erase all fears rooted deep within their minds. >> 看来,我真的要学习设目标、设方向。我一直都觉得我不懂自己要什么。是我无欲还是我怕失败而下不了决定。
The smallest problem may seem to be the greatest of tragedies and if not controlled, the fears within these people can lead them to lunacy. >> 最近,我忽然觉得我需要管理我内心的不安。我要再提高我的 自我意识 和 处在当下。
Practice of mind control can help them to stick to their decisions and thus gain success. They possess occult powers. If they think of their guru or their favourite deity, they feel some strange power spreading within their body. They are able to predict a lot of forthcoming incidents prompted by their intuition. >> 自从学了 《庄子》,开始停止辩论、停止要别人合我意,我的心念清晰很多了。从小我就一直很喜欢《庄子》,可是,到现在都不曾认真读完过、或去了解过它。JT的讲解对我起帮助。
They never succeed in making true friends. >> 活了40+年,我没有与身边的人有很深的连结,和家人也是这样。也不知是我害怕失去而保持距离,还是疑心中而不会相信别人。我有着一个这样的概念 “ 秘密就只能自己知晓。如果有第二个人知道,这个秘密就已经不是秘密了。”
自从读到了洗发的方式,我开始不断地去找一个我能适应的洗头方式。我才理解到,我从小到大的洗头方式,太敷衍了。从涂抹洗发液到洗掉泡沫,整个过程都不到五分钟。so salah ~~~ ~~~头皮屑都还未软化,就草草结束了。由于长期累积了厚厚的死皮加灰尘,进而导致头皮老化、不健康。现在,我都会先让头皮、头发湿透,然后才开始用洗头液去洗净头皮。我会将这个过程加长(大概洗个4~5分钟),尽量用手指头刷到每个部份,手指轻轻地在头皮上前后的揉动。这个改变有了很明显的效果。掉发少了很多很多。以前,在弄干头发的过程,会有掉发。可是,自从改变了洗发的方式,梳头、吹干只是偶尔会有出现掉发的情况。